top of page
NOT HE OR SHE, I'M ME
Written by A.M. Wild​
Illustracted by Kah Yagni
Henry Holt Books for Young Readers (2023)
ISBN 9781250818607
This joyful read-aloud for 3-6 year olds follows a child getting ready for a wonderful day. They gleefully get dressed, hug their parents, go to school, and play with friends. All the while, unapologetically reminding themselves that they are and can only be themselves. The non-binary experience is brightly illustrated as we follow our main character through their typical day. The story's bouncy and fun refrain reminds all readers of gender neutral pronouns and affirms the identities of non-binary children—encouraging readers to practice empathy for themselves and others.
​
Praise for Not He or She, I'm Me
Most empowering picture books of 2023 - Kirkus
A 2024 American Library Association Stonewall Children’s Honor Book
2025 Rainbow Book List best in lgbtqia+ youth books
★ "Books such as this allow us to foster a world where every child can proudly say, “I’m me.” " - Booklist, starred review
​
★ "[This] book invites readers to see and revel in everyday gender euphoria, and so better celebrate those little galaxies that contain multitudes." - BCCB, starred review
​
★ "How refreshing to see nonbinary joy so lovingly depicted." - ​Kirkus, starred review
​
​​​​
Buy the Book
bottom of page